It is quite fun to have four kids! Fun yet to deal with them individually is a big challenge.
Jann is 4 year older than Jenzon while Jenzon is a year older to Jinou and Jonan is 3 years younger than his Kuya Jinou. Presently; Jann, Jenzon, Jinou & Jonan is 16 going 17, 13, 12 & 8 going 9 respectively. I must say they are four different kids!
Discipline was easy when most of them are in their toddler years but as they grew up, the challenges began. Befriending a teener, dealing with a boy in his awkward stage, comforting a bullied boy by his own kuya & teaching the youngest on how to act independently. Being a father to them is a great opportunity to test my faith and my ways as a Christian father. In all these things, I believe God is on my side giving me wisdom and the strength to endure any hardships (though it wasn't hard after all).
I am trying my best to go out with them together and individually (on schedule). Aside from letting them know that I always find a time to date with their mom, by God's grace, I am taking time to date them one by one. To build and nurture my relationship to them as their father.
Praise the Lord!
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